A selfish endeavor designed to rid me of the crap that floats around my brain and won't leave me alone.
Still learning all of lifes lessions, one day at a time.
Wednesday, March 23, 2011
Top 100 things that I love: no order
- Family- No contest.
- New challenges
- A good book
- Camping
- When the kids actually do what they are told the first time.
- Singing as loud as I can to my favorite song at a stoplight, and not caring if anyone hears.
- Looking at clouds trying to figure out what they "really" are.
- Writing thoughts and feelings
- Reading a story out loud to anyone, kids especially
- Baby giggles.
- The feeling of accomplishment after a hard days work.
- Learning something new
- Watching a good movie
- Lasagna
- Driving other people's cars
- New underwear- its a girl thing.
- Painting your toenails
- Eye contact with a stranger ( x10 if he's cute)
- Maintaining good relationships with everyone
- Rain
- Hiking
- Picnics
- "Make up" kisses
- Finding $$ in a pants pocket you didn't even know you had!
- Wind chimes
- Watching one child help another
- People watching
- Mp3 player full blast on favorite song
- Doing anything that betters yourself or the world in general
- Chess
- Climbing a tree
- Watching someone do something you know you couldn't do, and respecting them for it.
- Rock band
- Playing Basketball
- The brief second you look at yourself in the mirror and think you almost look good.
- Hanging out with your best girlfriend and having the time to "girl talk"
- Cloths fresh out of the drier
- Whistling back to the birds
- Getting all dressed up with no place to go
- Getting off work/or school early
- Chocolate cake
- Wind through your hair
- Days that a film comes over your eyes and your soal and you can only see, and feel good
- Seeing someone you haven't seen in a LONG LONG time.
- Bubble baths
- Tubing with the family
- Oreos and milk
- Green lights
- No traffic
- The ocean
- Fishing
- Water slides
- Having someone you love to share experiences with
- Full bottle of wine and friends to help you drink it
- Lazy mornings
- Dimples
- Friends that know what you are thinking, and don't have to ask
- Saying the same thing, at the same time as someone else
- Curling up by a fire in the winter when there is a blizzard outside
- Paydays
- When the house stays clean for more then ten minutes
- Flowers
- Going through old pictures and having the time to remember the stories that go with them
- Laughing at yourself
- Taking friends out for dinner and a movie
- Knowing that they will do the same for you when you most need it
- Making peace with the world around you
- Forgiving your parents for being human
- Accepting that the world is what you make of it
- Recognizing that there are no such thing as limits
- Breaking free from yourself
- Finding people who think like myself and learning from them
- The belief that all of us already know all of the answers to all of the questions we store inside our minds
- LIFE
- Fruit
- Kittens
- Singing in the shower
- Tattoos and their meanings
- A sudden great idea or solution to a problem
- Laughing to yourself when OTHER PEOPLE'S kids start acting up,
- Knowing your not alone when yours do.
- Achieving a goal
- Ice cream
- Helping anyone for any reason
- Foreign countries
- Amusement parks
- Alchohol after a long day
- Coffee the next morning
- Animal friends
- Yoga
- Sleeping in
- Clean sheets
- Realizing there are soo many adventures left you must have, and
- Having them
- Skydiving
- Enjoying the look on your kid's face after they have just tried something new
- Mowing the lawn
- The smell of dirt.
- Going to the store in PJ's
- Making pancakes for the ones you love.
Wednesday, March 16, 2011
wait wait wait...clean clean clean....wait .....
We are still waiting for the nice lady to come back and deem us "good parents", the irony is that I am having to leave the baby screaming in her walker an extra miniute or two longer then I normally would to make sure all of the dishes are in the sink, or that all of the laundry -- a never ending battle-- is not laying around. I wish she would just come so we could get this overwith. I seriously clean my way out of rooms before I leave to go anywhere as though my home were a 'model home' and not a lived in thing.
I would be lying however, if I said I didden't like it this clean. I just hope maintaining it dosen't kill me.
Day before yesterday Husband, not only cooked dinner...BUT WASHED DISHES AFTERWARD!
I thought I would have a heart attack!! And his 'deal with it later' pile of crap in the yard --that I have been begging him to deal with for three years-- is gone!!!
It is true what they say, good things come from everything.
I still contend that it is freaken ridicules that anyone for any reason could phone child protective services and disrupt my life this way. It is a violation of privacy in the name of the children and their safty. Seriously. I have nothing to hide, it is very frustrating to feel so powerless though.
It dehumanizes people and suddenly makes everyone a bad guy. I don't want to let people into my home anymore. Even if it is clean, it is BS that some judgemental ass could step two feet into my home and decide, for whatever reason, that I should be investigated.
Maybe it is because I don't go to church? Or don't attend 'social functions' at school (sorry, but it is a little difficult to do that with a child strapped to your hip and another attempting to run down the hall and terrorize the school).
Maby the neighbors just wanted our yard clean, I couldn't blame them...but really??? WTF?
When people who have as many kids as I do start telling me my house is messy --and seriously, everyone who has the same amount of kids I do, who's house I have been in...has been way messier then mine--- Then I will listen. Maby. Until then....Please feel free to mind your own damn business or if there is an issue at least have the nerve to come and talk to a fellow human and tell me what is up. That is all.
I would be lying however, if I said I didden't like it this clean. I just hope maintaining it dosen't kill me.
Day before yesterday Husband, not only cooked dinner...BUT WASHED DISHES AFTERWARD!
I thought I would have a heart attack!! And his 'deal with it later' pile of crap in the yard --that I have been begging him to deal with for three years-- is gone!!!
It is true what they say, good things come from everything.
I still contend that it is freaken ridicules that anyone for any reason could phone child protective services and disrupt my life this way. It is a violation of privacy in the name of the children and their safty. Seriously. I have nothing to hide, it is very frustrating to feel so powerless though.
It dehumanizes people and suddenly makes everyone a bad guy. I don't want to let people into my home anymore. Even if it is clean, it is BS that some judgemental ass could step two feet into my home and decide, for whatever reason, that I should be investigated.
Maybe it is because I don't go to church? Or don't attend 'social functions' at school (sorry, but it is a little difficult to do that with a child strapped to your hip and another attempting to run down the hall and terrorize the school).
Maby the neighbors just wanted our yard clean, I couldn't blame them...but really??? WTF?
When people who have as many kids as I do start telling me my house is messy --and seriously, everyone who has the same amount of kids I do, who's house I have been in...has been way messier then mine--- Then I will listen. Maby. Until then....Please feel free to mind your own damn business or if there is an issue at least have the nerve to come and talk to a fellow human and tell me what is up. That is all.
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